Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Tennessee's Hateful New Law

Tennessee’s governor just signed a law that prohibits any local government (towns, cities, counties, etc.) from passing any ordinance or regulation that gives rights to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgendered individuals. This appears to be in direct response to a Nashville ordinance that was recently passed that prohibited discrimination based upon sexual orientation, whether actual or perceived.

It makes me sad. Even more, it makes me tired all over.

There are those who claim to be for less government regulation and interference. They purport to proclaim greater rights for the local elected bodies to determine what is most appropriate for their community.

Yet they continue to promote laws, rules, regulations and constitutional amendments that attempt to impose the religious tyranny of a small group upon the entire population.

Polls show that the majority of people don’t believe in this restriction of rights.  The "silent majority" tend to be more inclusive than the vocal minority, but that same majority holds true to form and stands silently by and says nothing.

Even though I don’t live in Tennessee, this legislation affects me. It encourages the those extremely conservative individuals to continue imposing their brand of morality and judgment upon individuals who believe differently.

Let’s not even get into the “nature vs. nurture” thing or “choosing a lifestyle”. Let’s just talk about a basic, fundamental concept that many of us were brought up with.

Specifically, “Mind your own business”.

The rights which LGBT people want have nothing to do with your religiousity. Speak in tongues, handle snakes, say the Rosary or sacrifice a white chicken – it matters not to me as long as they don’t insist that I either participate or agree with them.  Conversely, I will not insist that they drink alcohol or marry someone of the same gender if they don't want to.  That is the epitome of freedom of choice.

Why then, do they feel that I must be converted to their specific ideology? The rights we are talking about are civil rights, based upon our form of government, and are supposed to be immune from the influence of any specific religion.

Yet those purporting to act continually cite the Christian Bible as the basis for their authority.

It is no more any of their business whom I live with or love than it is whether I have a religious ideology that agrees with yours, whether I go to church or temple or mosque or what God or Gods I worship, if any. Our country was founded on the premise of freedom of ideology – it therefore confounds me as to why so many people who claim to cherish those ideals seem so dead set on imposing their philosophy on other people who haven’t expressed even the slightest interest in hearing it, much less subscribing to it.

The result is that now in Tennessee, as in many other places in the United States, you can be fired or denied housing or discriminated against any number of ways if you are (or are perceived to be) Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgendered. Regardless of your skills or abilities or anything else, you have none of the civil legal protections that are offered if you are African-American or Asian or female or physically challenged or virtually any other minority.

And this concept continues to grow throughout the land every day with the proposal of new laws and constitutional amendments that perpetually pigeonhole one group of people and deny them rights that are offered to every other citizen in this country.

It makes me sad to the very center of my being.

It’s not over, of course. Everyone will “Lawyer up” with challenges, spending hundreds of thousands of dollars determining who is right in the argument – money that could otherwise be spent housing the homeless or feeding the poor or just figuring out why the hell gas remains at $4.00 a gallon and oil companies continue to get monstrous tax breaks while reaping obscene profits.

It is exhausting to keep fighting. Unfortunately, it’s not a battle from which LGBT people can withdraw, any more than the Jews could withdraw from the persecution of the Nazi's in the 1930's, so the fight will continue.

What is the saddest, though, is that so many people – good, moral folks who do not believe that what is happening with legislation like this is right – stand idly by and say nothing. It may not seem to impact them, but eventually it will.

It will impact them first because someone they know is gay, although they may not realize it. Eventually, though, everyone will be confronted with a son, daughter, grandchild, or parent whom they realize is homosexual. With some, you’ll know because they’ve told you – or they couldn’t hide it if they tried.  With others, we'll find out eventually, because some action has been taken against them because they are LGBT.

Here’s why everyone should be concerned about this creeping invasion of the personal rights of LGBT people, though -- after the people who are encouraging the persecuting are done with the gay folks, they’re going to find another group to go after, whether it be people of color or the differently abled or Presbyterians or people with green eyes. Eventually, all of those people who stand by now and say nothing will find themselves confronted with the same “us vs. them” mindset, and they'll be one of the "thems" rather than an "us". 

Once the easy folks have been picked off, those who are obviously different because of their appearance or actions, the persecutors will look around for whom next to go after.

Because a bully without a victim loses power, and after having taken out the weakest victims, they will look for the next weakest and so on up the chain.

And when they get to those who stand by now and say nothing, those who would help speak up for those who are now standing silently by may already be gone.

5 comments:

David Zealy said...

It has always seemed to me the childish behavior of adults determined to be validated in how "right" they are when deep down they know that they are wrong. This makes me sad as well.

Leslie W. Cothren said...

Very sad. But worse, the tiring part. I am tired of defending myself. Why do we have to defend ourselves!

dw bentley said...

great to get the Tennessee Chamber of Commerce back tracking on this issue.....and kudos to the corportate support from FedEx and KPMG.

Larry J. said...

I disagree, DW -- it was because of those very organizations -- and their corporate support through the Tennessee Chamber of Commerce -- that there was little or no opposition to the bill. Only AFTER there was a tremendous backlash from the LGBT community did they take a step back. I think that a good part of the blame for the success of that legislation lies at their feet, and that there should be significant financial repercussions.

Individually, we can't do much, but if every time we shopped with a competitor we copied the receipt, sent it to the corporate offices of those companies who are either wishy-washy or unsupportive and explained exactly WHY we bought from that competitor, I bet it would cause some of them to think again.

And yes, it's going to be inconvenient at times. I loathe Wal Mart already, but I'm reluctant to shop at Target now because of their corporate donations. Rather than use Fed Ex in the future, I'll likely be scoping out UPS. It may cost a little more, but maybe it will help get the message across.

The companies you named don't deserve any kudos for their actions -- they only did the right thing when they figured out that people were watching and that there would be repercussions. If they had any integrity, they would have been doing the right thing when nobody would have known.

Anonymous said...

Ralph - being Jewish, and with family who escaped Germany in the 30s, I am all too familiar with persecution. Having visited the South many times in the 50s I saw, first hand, how intolerance is exhibited in daily lives.
All of these so-called good "Christians" makes me believe that "christian" has become an evil word. When someone proclaims that belief out loud the hair on the back of my neck stands up.
I know it is wrong to blame so many for the actions of a few but the bystanders, who proclaim innocence, allow it to go on and, ultimately, must share the responsibility - how many millions of "good" Germans did absolutely nothing?
I do not know any more how to feel - yes, tired; more so irate and disgusted and ashamed of the country I have so long loved. And I want to just cry.
It is also amazing to me that those who most loudly proclaim that government should not interfere with their lives are constantly working through the laws to affect the lives and rights of everyone around them who are not just like they are.
There is a war on in this country and not just against LGBT - it is against the poor and the middle class also; and those of a different religion, skin color or whatever suits some people's fancy.
Unfortunately this war has gone on since caveman times and will go on well past my lifetime.
Perhaps hate, intolerance, envy or whatever is just too much a part of the nature of far too many humans.
However, just because the war will never end, the battle must still go on.